Experiment

Please consider the following ideas as a way to help your child discover their gift:
* If a family event needs to be organized, ask your child what has to be done for it to be successful. This could reveal if the child is an organizer.
* Take your child to a nursing home to visit with shut-ins. Observe if their heart goes out to people bound in beds and wheel chairs. Another place might be the church nursery. If you see a spark of light in their eyes afterwards, they maybe a mercy person. If they didn’t enjoy the experience, then move on to other opportunities.
* Bring your child to workdays at the church and give them a significant job that is appropriate for their age. For example, don’t send a little boy on the roof to repair a leak.
* If they seem to be energized by setting up a room, or cleaning it, then they may have a gift of serving. Perhaps they can work in the kitchen serving food to people.
* If your church has a prayer group, bring your child along and train him or her how to pray conversationally with other people. If they seem to get turned on by prayer, your child may be a budding prophet.

What Not to Do
Debrief
Affirm
Role Model
Prayer